I am not sure on those things. We did have a long R talk last night. About car pool guy, studying etc. Said she didn't realize she was ignoring us. She saw emails in my facebook that hurt her tremendously saying she was cheating. Says no way... She even had her weddding band back on after almost 2 weeks. We talked about money sitch and then back to R sitch. She had answer to everything. But of course she lied about several things that I no for a fact. It was a 2 hour conversation to nowhere.
It always came back to what I had typed hurting her. She did some marter stuff. Funny thing was she looked up on google. How to find out if your house is bugged. She also searched for a few other odd things on the web.
All in all she said I hurt her too much to ever get back together. Still jealous of the kids relationship with me and I still have 0 belief in 80% of what she said. Mostly due to facts I know. No gut just facts. Sort of odd how she lied to my faces on 2 particular questions I asked.
W tears came about how I think she is stepping out of the marriage(cheating) and that I no longer love her so it will now be easier to get D.