Quote: wow - reading what you have gone thru in your first two marriages gives me chills. after those experiences i can't even imagine having faith in marriage as a whole.
To be honest, I swore after the fiasco of M2 that I would NEVER get married again. It took me a year after I left to even consider going out with a man again let alone get involved in an R with anyone. When the current H and I got together the first time I did my darndest to keep the R very casual and have no expectations. When I realized that I was more emotionally involved then I wanted to be I freaked out and ran away. It took H and I 2 years to find each other again and during those 2 years I would have nothing to do with any men...not even dating. I lost my heart to someone that I didn't want to and I was angry with myself for it...crazy huh ? WHen H and I did get back together I still didn't want to get married again...I was happy just living together. Over time I realized that it wasn't MARRIAGE that caused the problems I had previously...it was the people I married. I found that I WANTED to be married to H...it is hard to explain really.
Yep, I liked Shiny's idea too so I will try to practice it the best that I can
Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
? WHen H and I did get back together I still didn't want to get married again...I was happy just living together. Over time I realized that it wasn't MARRIAGE that caused the problems I had previously...it was the people I married. I found that I WANTED to be married to H...it is hard to explain really.