I agree with Hope4Luv. Take some deep breaths and do something nice just for yourself. You have worked too hard getting to this point to make missteps now. Your W, for whatever reason, can't move to the next step with you right now. It might be a good idea to get away for a short time --- go for a walk, sit on the patio in the warm sun with the morning newspaper and a great cup of coffee, listen to your children talking and laughing in the next room........
My coach often encouraged me to get H to laugh to help maintain and enhance my emotional bond with him.....laughter causes the release of oxyocin, the "bonding" hormone. This hormone is released after org*$m, and promotes "cuddle" time. Laughter is a form of pleasure and promotes relaxation. This sounds kind of geeky, but neurochemistry plays a big role in biology, including mating behavior. (Sometimes I am SUCH a geek! )
with the morning newspaper and a great cup of coffee, listen to your children talking and laughing in the next room........
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