Like all things in life, everything that happens has some good and some bad effects.

With our separation, I have a lot more time to practice guitar, and I have become better over the last four months than I had over the last four years.

However, I'd rather have my family together again. But focusing on the positive aspects helps keep me sane.

Keep going. You seem to be doing as well as any of us can.


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053