zoo - sorry it's been so long since i returned to your thread, also sorry that you been sick, cause that is a definite downer
wow - reading what you have gone thru in your first two marriages gives me chills. after those experiences i can't even imagine having faith in marriage as a whole.
shiny nailed it when she said posting at least three positives a day helps. i don't always get to do that, but i LOOK for them daily, because by searching for them the negatives are not allowed to enter the psyche and mess us up
