Amy,

Thank you for all the wonderful advice. The difficult part is trying to find out what exactly is going on with her. She is not communicating with any of our friends. She has withdrawn into her own little world with the OM.

I have already told her that our son will not be allowed to visit her this weekend. Of course, she hasn't responded.

It seems like she is trying really hard to make things work with the OM. The lack of communication from her speaks volumes.

I just wonder when the guilt will start to wear her down. Maybe it already is.

Its the weekend now, time to play Thomas the train with my son.


Me- 31 yrs old

Her- 33 yrs old

S- 3 yrs old

Bomb- 4/ 09

Moved out- 6/ 09