Mornin' Zoo, I read you thread after I posted and girl, I picked the exact wrong scenarios to give as examples on your thread! Pls excuse. Glad you could follow along regarardless of the fact that I wasn't prepared for class. I've done my homework now and see that your sitch has turned around in a very fast and very amazing way. Seems like you already had the gift of patience and you have good instincts for DB.
I don't see that you have any fun things to do w/the H.
And I had a personal question: on your first 2 Ms would you have used DB on these if you could have had the tools? You don't have to answer, I am just being nosey. This is my 2nd M and I wouldn't have applied DB to my fisrt one even if I were a DB queen! He was an alcohlic and I was such an enabler; not healthy at all. Got to the point where he would never have work again. His excuse when we were in the Phillipenes was the American dependents (him) of active duty military (me) couldn't work due to the agreement the American had w/the Fillipino gov't. Fair enough but he just wanted to drink and cat his life away, which he ended up doing in the end. He died from and accidental alcohol OD when he was 34, about 10 yrs ago. It still hurts our dau, his family and me to this day - the waste of it all.
Gotta go, IMing w/the H, he's deployed. Any Uzbecky's out here?? Have a great weekend. pbee
