H not happy about me refusing to take him to the airport...I don't know why it scares me to tell him that I do not want to do it. Not just that I have plans but that I simply do not want to.
Of course it's scary. But it should be scarier for him. You told him what's what. If he doesn't want to work on the R and dump the GF then there will be more of the same.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh