She has wanted to proceed to in house separation as fast as possible. I now know why. It is so then she can do anything she wants. Infidelity can no longer be used as grounds for divorce once in house sep is agreed. In another words she can screw around and have no consequences to her actions. So then since she does not work I get screwed all the way around. I also get to pay for her lawyer, her gas, spending money, clothes, birth control, Dr visits etc. That makes her another child . But I cannot manage this child and her actions but yet I am responsible for her actions. The credit cards, the school bills etc. I am worried about her actions effecting the family..drinking with her meds, drinking and driving etc.
Sorry I had to vent,
So we are now going for separation proceedings.
That was a great vent. And honestly in my opinion what she is requesting is unacceptable. IN HOUSE SEPERATION? WTF. why would you want this (it sounds to me you already have an in-house seperation. her living in another room going about her business with no care how it affects you or your children) any longer? if she had to face the consequences of her actions and descions with a real and formal seperation how would she turn?
what if you had your lawyer stop the seperation procedings and requested a divorce would that wake her up?
