Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

He's doing this to push you off balance and get his power back. He's calling your bluff with no intentions of staying away. He will return, telling you he wants to work on the M (like how many times before has he done this???), and return to the status quo.

I agree: pack up his stuff and set it on the porch.

SD

I'm not going to let him see me off balance. No way in hell. I wasn't bluffing when I told him to leave so if he thinks he can saunter right back home he's got another thing coming. It will not go back to the way it was. Once he's out the only way I'm letting him back is after I know he's serious about working on the M. And that won't be from him flapping his jaw...it'll be his actions.