How does loving someone unconditionally show weakness or lack of self-respect?
I think that way as well. Even if we D, I don't know if we'll be 'friends,' but I'll always love her. She's the mother of two beautiful girls and in most of the memories of my 20s and all of my 30s.
She's a confused, unhappy woman who never learned how to just accept herself as she is. I didn't help by trying to change her or work myself into depression trying to make her happy.
I still feel, some day, she'll realize what we had was real and worth saving. Unfortunately, that's not going to be for a long time.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6