He's doing this to push you off balance and get his power back. He's calling your bluff with no intentions of staying away. He will return, telling you he wants to work on the M (like how many times before has he done this???), and return to the status quo.

I agree: pack up his stuff and set it on the porch.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!