If you want to understand MLC....read the posts on here. After reviewing a few hundred of them you will get a taste of what is going on. If you feel the need to discuss it with your counselor...don't center it around your wife. That is highly unproductive use of your time. Keep the conversation like you would see a classroom conversation about the subject. If you bring your wife into the discussion it will turn into the counselor trying to diagnose your wife...it doesn't work well and is truly a waste of your time. Nobody can fix her other than herself...you can only prepare yourself a very small amount for the ride....a very very small amount.
A better way of using your counselor is discuss your relationship with your kids, at work, and stress that you may feel. A good counselor will gentle lead you in a direction where you see what needs to be improved.
How was lunch with the kids? Hopefully you got the afternoon off and I won't know until later tonight
