Thanx for the rah, rah on Gabi's thread. It made my day that you noticed and if I was at all encouraging then I'm glad.
Yes, everyone has it right. Just settle and when in doubt just let it rest a bit; the answer will come. Hard to believe that nontalking (No R talk) can make things easier but my take is that your H will need time to process things especially w/the NEW (and improved) you. You needn't romp on anything. Money talk can wait until a better time, the kids (if you have any) aren't going to become deliquents overnight and your mother's not going to visit for a few more months. These are just examples of what can wait and I'm not saying to blow stuff off just pick you moments from the sky. When in doubt, it's best to wait.
(Sorry, I haven't gotten a chance to read your thread yet but I surely will.)
I never got my big talk from my H either. Some here feel like they were robbed because of they never got an explanation or the number of the train that hit them. But frankly, R talk leads to more analyzation and more talk and more anal stuff, more talk etc, etc, etc, blah, blah, blah.
The kind of love and the R you are having now is a better one and Zoo, you may have to setttle for that. If you had the choice of actually having what you have now OR finding out WHY you have it but had to give it up which would you pick?
You may be wasting time on this cheeseless tunnel. He made a mistake, he is altering his course and he wants you on board. Am I making any sense?
