Haha! I did the play this morning, matinee for school kids, and about to take D9 to art club and another play tonight.
Talked to the L. She wanted to set up the appt. today, but I said unless some action is going to be taken I'd prefer not to meet (ie not waste money). We met about the custody stuff last week, and I can't afford a weekly update for her (at about $200 a pop). I did update her by email about Tues-Wed this week already. She said the judge is out of town so she can't set it for hearing now.
D9 told me this am that dad recently told her in a few months he was going to try to change the schedule (AGAIN!) so he could have every other Friday. Every 2 months he wants to switch the schedule, plus he tells her 2 months before this may even happen! Dad is a f-l-a-k-e imo.
Then D9's friend says their class is doing a project on a book report, was sent home a week or 2 ago. D9 didn't know anything about it. I talked to the teacher this afternoon and it was sent home on a Monday, to X's home. He's done nothing with her and it's due in 9 days. I helped her pick out a book today and told her she's going to have to read about 2 chapters a day to get it done. And I got the book report form from the teacher also. The part to me is if you're not going to share the info with the other parent, then he should do the work with her, but no....
I need to write all this stuff up! Well, the play ends Sunday so that's good. I'll miss the people, but not all the hours!
