And you have kids that will always be a reminder of her. That is why you never truly D someone. They will be in your life the rest of your life as long as you have kids together.

It is how you manage those feelings that allows you to be all you can be with or without her.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...