She cannot and should not come home until you are you Frank.
Agreed, besides she wants the divorce.
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If she came back would you guys get better?
I don't think so...but then they are not my shoes.
Probably not. Not right now anyway.
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You don't like the path, understandable, change your perspective, or chart your own course, stop being a stick in the river and pis sed off at the river.
I've been doing that Jack.
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If you are really not attached to Skylar...why do you have him/her? Is it the connection, is it like the reason people don't change a room and keep it as a shrine to a lost loved one?
I didn't say I wasn't attached to him, I said that I got him for them. He's a lovable guy and sleeps in the bedroom with me every night.
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If you want D14 at your home why isn't she?
Well, all I can do is tell you what D18 has said to me. That D14 doesn't want her mom to be alone so she thinks one kid should live with each of us. D14 is very sensitive to others feelings.
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You aren't going to 'please' your wife into coming back...and everytime you try to 'please' her its like...I dunno man...like your trying to accommodate her at cost to yourself...you lose something in yourself, and I cannot put my finger on it. Respect, diginity, esteem...and that lost part fills up with despair, anger, hurt.
I'm learning that lesson. As I said in a previous post, I don't talk to her if I can help it. I don't take her calls but instead let her leave a message.
Here's another '180'. Yesterday she told me her computer was broken so she couldn't get her e-mail any more and I should call her if I need to tell her something. I did NOT offer to fix it. She didn't ask either.
