YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER THIS! You already have the awareness that this bleeding will occur. So stop it!! Talk to yourself. Love yourself. Heal yourself. What would you say to your CHILD who told you what you just wrote to me - the bleeding over part - what would you say to your child to encourage him/her? Well, say that to yourself! You would say "You are not unlovable just b/c one person doesn't love you. You are a valuable friend to many people. You have gifts that others need and want you to share. You have so much to offer - you are lovable and WILL BE LOVED!" That's what I'd say to MY child, anyway. You say that to yourself and believe it.
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