She cannot and should not come home until you are you Frank.
You get angry that your life has gone down this path when she is down, you get angry that your life has gone down this path when when she is up, you get angry that your life has gone down this path when she is angry.
If she came back would you guys get better?
I don't think so...but then they are not my shoes.
You don't like the path, understandable, change your perspective, or chart your own course, stop being a stick in the river and pis sed off at the river.
The dog issue...
If you are really not attached to Skylar...why do you have him/her? Is it the connection, is it like the reason people don't change a room and keep it as a shrine to a lost loved one?
If you want D14 at your home why isn't she?
You aren't going to 'please' your wife into coming back...and everytime you try to 'please' her its like...I dunno man...like your trying to accommodate her at cost to yourself...you lose something in yourself, and I cannot put my finger on it. Respect, diginity, esteem...and that lost part fills up with despair, anger, hurt.
Cycle...break it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
