The WAS 'detatches' first. That is exactly what the WAS does but they get to do it on their own time in their own way and without someone else pushing them there.
By the time the LBS understands what has happened they are forced to go throught he same process in a forced fashion, kind of like they had a gun to their head.
The LBS is then 'helped along' or pushed through the proces by the WAS's actions.
This is exactly what happened with she and I. She has been detatched for a long time, while I'm still trying to get there.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
