Antlers,
That's bound to hurt - her dating other people. And I don't think you would be HUMAN if it didn't. I don't think it would be healthy if you didn't feel hurt about that. But now look - I'm thinking the healthy way to deal with that hurt (which must be inevitable) is not to let it BLEED into your self-worth. She is dating other men b/c that is what she wants - NOT b/c there is some FLAW in Antlers; not b/c Antlers is unlovable; not b/c Antlers did something to deserve this. See what I mean?

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



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