If I can get detatched to the point that her dating others will bother me no more than any other woman dating others...well, that's where I want to 'get to'! Can one get detatched to that degree?
I believe you can antlers, although I don't have first hand knowledge. I believe no matter what it will take time, however, to get there just like everything else in this area of detatchment. If I get to this point where my W is openly dating others some day I know that having a life of my own where I am truly responsible for my own happiness, and making it happen (not just acknoweldging it but living it) I will be able to detatch to that level also.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
