For the record, Sun Tzu also said:

"Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win."

I only mention that because I believe you came here already defeated in your mindset.

I cannot convince you to fight for you marriage...that is something you have to do for yourself.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet