P.S. There is no benefit to leaving things unsaid. They just bother you forever. Before we went to Retrouvaille, my H and I had swept so much stuff under the proverbial rug, that we were living in a tight space close to the ceiling. It doesn't work. If you have something to say to him, say it. Get it out. Be understood. Hear what he has to say. That is communication, and it is necessary for a healthy marriage.
Very good advice & I'm taking it to heart. His actions and any talk of the future are showing he loves ME and desires ME.
I know the biggest problem right now is ME and my lack of confidence in myself. I will make sure I am actively working on that, but I've always had issues w/ self esteem.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
