PDT, I am curious (and of course not to hijack), but was your wife seeing anybody at the time she seperated?

I have suspicions that mine is, but frankly, I dont want to dig into it too much because of the personal hurt. I know the info is there if I need it should she decide on the "d." Anyway, I have considered something similar to what you did, saying I had a date, but infact, just meeting a friend for a few beers. If you all were seperated at the time, how did she know about your "date?"

thanks!

ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present