I'm not talking to her about it, she made her point and hasn't brought it back up, I'm done defending myself on everything, that's what she is looking for, me to defend myself on everything. LOOKING IN THE MIRROR, I didn't like that about myself, I used to let people make me feel bad and I had to defend why i did what i did, look what that's accomplished.
Dropped kids off at 9:30 and yes wife was at the neighbors. They'll be a good couple for a little bit i suppose.
I findly found a cnslr that believes in MLC,i meet her monday to help, too.
Ironically enough she ment'd cnslr that wife goes to is very good also. Kept that to myself, just curious if that cnslr is so good why'd she bury me like she did. Oh well no more spilt milk.
Don't mean to interrupt the conversation with yourself but...
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Ironically enough she ment'd cnslr that wife goes to is very good also. Kept that to myself, just curious if that cnslr is so good why'd she bury me like she did. Oh well no more spilt milk.
This is NOT gonna happen overnight....
IF her councelor is good, she won't let that go on very long...
Once again, I stress that the only sessions you should worry about are your own...
Those looks into the mirror ARE hard .....but neccessary.
I am only going for myself, but part of understanding all this is understanding all this, i am going for my support and to also understand the process. I have been to 4 cnslrs they all think mlc is a cop out and all 4 have said it would be in my best interest to file divorce first.
I am not looking for someone to see things my way, but i am looking for someone to see things my way. i want a cnslr that is going to support my decision like you all are and not take the easy way out and teach me everything there is about an mlc and also how to continue to bld my character and avoid pitfalls.
I'm a better listener than reader.
KISS, she thinks i'm a stalker, bills and kids only, no more reching out. Breathe.
knowing that stalker thing has answered so many ?'s as to how or why she has said some things and knowing that c'ly we are broken up for the first time in 4 mo's vs being in save a relationship mode, i really am in a build me mode and i think i'm crying more and getting ready to in a second, so i can grieve and go thru the steps that happen when a relationship ends.
until last wk, i didn't know a relationship had truly ended and i can see how i was manipulated, i tried to hard, it's time for me and kids now. i need to carry the load and do the work.
have a great day, i'll touch base with any new developments, no emails from her so far today.
Unless you delete all those pics, you aren't getting it. And, it is only respectful to let her know that you deleted them. I'm not sure why you wouldn't want to apologize for violating obvious boundaries. But at least delete the pics and forget any idea of using her pictures for your projects.
