Detachment

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Thanks for the explanation. What was it, specifically, that helped you detatch to the point where you were completely unaffected by her at all, or by what was going on in her life at all?

I'm not the expert on this - Coach is - but I did catch something that I think makes an important distinction. You write about being 'completely unaffected.' I'm thinking that the objective is more along the lines of not being responsible for your spouse more than not being affected by. I mean, what she/he does may affect your life but that you understand your are not responsible for her actions, can't control them, and they don't hold the key to you're happiness and tranquility.

Actually, in some ways, the WAS does this bit, too. For different reasons. And a lot sooner than the LBS.

Greek