Puppy, I'm afraid to even bring up d talk. Afraid she will force the d if I hint at d as boundary for my or her dating.

And I would love to just date her. Moving back would be too traumatic. But when I told her about MY dating profile she thought it was a GREAT idea. I'm at dr. Appt now w/ her and all I can see now in her is distance from me.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)