P.S. There is no benefit to leaving things unsaid. They just bother you forever. Before we went to Retrouvaille, my H and I had swept so much stuff under the proverbial rug, that we were living in a tight space close to the ceiling. It doesn't work. If you have something to say to him, say it. Get it out. Be understood. Hear what he has to say. That is communication, and it is necessary for a healthy marriage.
