Congrats Dia. I would suggest sitting down and really figuring out what your boundaries should be with OW. You should probably make sure he realizes you will not tolerate a friendship before the break-up. It would be unfair to him otherwise; because he did tell you he will remain friends.

Good luck.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1