Hmm, given the current situation, do you really think either of you will really enjoy the holidays even if you stay? My guess is that it will involve a lot of pretending.
I'm with the others here.
1) The thing about no vet visits for the pets is completely unreasonable. You and your D would certainly care if the animal dies, plus it's just cruel to let them suffer when help is available.
2) You have every right to buy a rabbit cage if you want to. Period.
3) Realistically speaking, it's not a done deal that your MC will be able to gain your H's trust at all no matter how patient you are. Might happen, might not. I have been in relationship counseling with an abusive man, so I speak from experience.
4) Thank you for the Congrats over in my thread. I'm happy, but I feel like the work is just about to begin, so I feel a little nervous and scared, too.
Last edited by Dia; 10/09/0905:13 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
I'm happy, but I feel like the work is just about to begin, so I feel a little nervous and scared, too.
