I think that he has to leave in order to find out that you are not the source of his anger. I don't know that he will figure that out, even then, but as long as he is there, I don't think things are going to get any better.
Stay calm, keep that center you seem to have found in the past few weeks. Remember, the kids are going to watch your reaction, and that will have a lot to do with how they react. I truly believe that if you show them that this is not "ruining" your life, it won't "ruin" theirs. You are the key person in this! (Not to put any pressure on you! )
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