We discussed the way H talks to me at last week's session and just kinda cursory at this week's. The MC's goal for H is to try to validate what I'm feeling, and for me to speak up. We have a long ways to go in those areas. And we haven't even started talking about the swinging issue and I'm feeling impatient. I think I was hoping a neutral third party would be able to tell H to wake the he!! up because he certainly doesn't believe it coming from me.
We're getting close to the holidays- is that a consideration? Does it make sense to stick around until January so everyone can try to enjoy them?
