ILYBINILWY speech May 09, Left for two weeks trial separation Aug 09 and never came back, came up three weekends for alloted hours of 10-3 wall still firmly intact and I wasnt getting any more than those hours. Started NC and only ever emailed him about financial things and once a week when he phoned gave him the bare essentials. Then didnt see him for a month, then out of the blue he asked to visit, tbh I thought I was going to be told about the OW but no, I played footlose, sexy sassy rabbit and reeled him in, then let him go again with NC, he was baby sitting our little girlie (he calls her babycakes) the following weekend, but bless her she had a nasty accident and he came up for five nights, planned only four but accepted my invitation to stay when he was obviously shattered, the let him go again not expecting to see him for ten days, he even rang and said he might make it eleven and to be honest as we had ML four times over that period I though right NO CAKE EATING Im done with you! So you could have run me over with a bus when he msn'd me and said he wanted to find out if we still had IT, its extremely early early days and I still really dont know what he is really trying to do I am just going with the flow day by day so its been about six months now so we will see!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!