It's just more of the same. You know why you don't bring the stuff up at home. You've been told for years that you are wrong, stupid, need medication, etc. Why would you bring things up at home? So you bring them up where you are safe, and of course he doesn't like that, because he can't tell you that you are wrong, stupid, and need medication. So he waits til you get home, and then makes it all your fault.
If you want to continue MC, that's probably a good thing. But I don't think that means you shouldn't leave. I see you getting caught in a circle here, he's laid a trap.