I have a message for you from a former regular who reads the boards but no longer posts. She wanted me to emphasize to you that with your concerns over your wife's living arrangements and the person she is involved with, if you continue to let your son go with her anyway, it can seriously backfire on you later in a custody proceeding.
Search your heart and look honestly at your situation. Get yourself some REAL information as to what your sons mother is doing these days. If after doing that your concerns remain the same, do not let the child go with his mother.
It is NOT TRUE that a bad mother is better than no mother at all.
And if not seeing her son hurts her badly enough, she just might straighten up.
If not, that's her own fault.
Your job is to protect and love your son.
And take care of yourself.
She's a grown woman.
Time to reap what she's sown.
That's how this works.
There is no getting around it.
And you can't pad the fall.
Trust me on that one.
Have a great weekend!
"Let anyone who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall" 1 Cor. 10:12
