UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Eskimo Nell]

I hear you loud and clear JCJ but isn't there a time when people can't do this any more and, despite all efforts, are 'forced' to give up. You can't keep on knocking your head against a wall when nothing works? It's just where I'm at and H is holding all the cards - he knows it, I know it. He's done and I am getting nowhere despite everything.

I am REALLY going to try this again on Sunday and see what progress (if any) I can make but I think it's gone too far now. I'm exhausted .... and yes, I do feel like a victim because I am a victim ... of his cruel and selfish behaviour.

I was a wife - I had a good life - he took it away from me in one fell swoop and I had no say in the matter.