I don't understand how the 'fishbowl' analogy helps
Your wife and you are the "fish." You get to watch your history, current interactions, view yourself and her as a outside observer. Since you are not part of the bowl you can be detached and give yourself more objective and productive advice. Like you are watching a movie of your marriage. Make sense?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
