Puppy thanks for the input. I noticed when I was folding the clothes after having washed them. No one else in the house wears men’s white tee under shirts but me. No other family in the area and the size is not mine nor is the brand. I believe it was in the hamper that she was putting her laundry in with the kids. She just started having a separate place in her bedroom for her laundry early this week. She also just started doing "only" her laundry this week.
In the last 10 days it has gone from bad to worse and keeps sliding that way. I am just getting fed up with all the crap I am putting up with and the total disrespect being shown towards me in front of the kids. I have a feeling as to why it has gone this way…I called her on her lies and deceptions and she couldn’t lie her way out. So she is mad at me for what she has done/been doing.
I am at the end of my rope as I feel trapped in the sitch. I am damned if i do and damned if i dont. I just keep my focus on the kids. Unfortunately the kids and I have to interact with the W. And that is where it gets messy and ugly.