Thanks 25, I guess I messed up big time. It was just our first conversation in over 10 months about what went wrong and I know that I have faults but denied them to him in the beginning of the separation and wanted him to know I see now how I also did things wrong.
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom and advice. Forgot to put in there that I did thank him in the end for paying on the loan. I'm going back to your post and read and read it over and over. Plus my praying will continue.
