It's MY life now!!!........

[peacetoday]

Silent
I can so relate to you and your story
this proves to me again and again that MLC is real
the secret Life..I only just found out my sxh address after almost 3 years of this
He is very secretive..not really normal for a grown man unless he is ashamed or trying to hide something
I know it is all so painful b.c I too thought MY xh was someone else..he was at that time
that was real
but over a cours of a few years right before bomb he was beginning to shift
maybe he got tired of living by the book..doing things right
being loyal honest ect
b/c now he is a man with little morals
I lived with him for many years and he did have morals
he is different
they did love us that was not a lie
they just chose a different path now
one that appears easier atleast inially but ofcourse in the long run it will strip them of everything
maybe that is the plan..the lesson we all needed to learn and live
my XH is also unavailable
picks up his phone when he wants
they dont want to be accountable to us anymore
yes we all made mistakes, but we have learned and will take the answers with us --that is a blessing
so keep going
it keeps getting easier to let go as time goes on
my life and your will keep getting better
less complicated and everything will fall into place
peace