Hey Brkn, just read your post and know you are a nice guy...probably TOO nice. When you get to the part in the book where it talks about 180s, you will have no problem thinking of a few. Number one would be start taking care of number one (that's you). You start dictating and regain control of YOUR life. Stop taking orders. SHE HAS PLANS FOR YOU WHEN YOU DIVORCE??? SHE WILL SEE HOW SHE FEELS NEXT WEEK AND WILL LET YOU KNOW???? Sorry I had to raise my voice..... Brkn, please do yourself a huge favour and stop being so available physically and emotionally. Trust me, it will do you some good and will give her the opportunity to miss you a little. This probably does not sound right to you (and probably will be very difficult) but to me it is crystal clear. Great job on staying away from saying that you do not want a divorce. She already knows that... Goog luck Brkn, you may be able to fix this....don't be so available. She needs to miss you!!!!!
