UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Eskimo Nell]

Hi GAG! Ha, I've been busted!! Yeah, just Rabbit and I 'bonding', I guess!

Thanks for your kind feedback about my comments on the board - when I am calm and feeling strong, I can help others. Mostly I am a blethering wreck and need the help myself ... like this evening.

Mid-morning, H sent me a text to say that he was arranging the house valuers to come out week after next and wants to know when I will be at home for this to occur. Wrong - if he wants them here, he takes care of it. I am not helping him to achieve this goal. I can't stop him but I don't have to help. His timing was perfect ... all engineered to upset my day. Text ignored, by the way.

Then I come home from work to an email ... he 'proposes' to be here at Sunday lunch time to remove more furniture and personal belongings from the home. Says that he can do it when I am out, if I would prefer. Evidently he overlooked the part where we are supposed to be discussing finances but he's evidently being driven by yet another alien force to make him step up the negative action.

The rate he is going, he will have me out of here because I'm sure that his next move will be that if I refuse to sell, he will refuse to pay his half of the mortgage. He's just going to keep upping the ante until he has bled me dry and there's only my bones left to pick over ... I have ignored this email too and will be so busy tomorrow that I don't possibly have time to even consider it.

If he turns up on Sunday, then so be it ... if not, so be that too.