I do like them bananas...and it makes a lot of sense to me. Fortunately, H has asked for some referrals to therapists, so I'm hopeful that he will get in there. He is too much of a perfectionist to admit he has problems, but that perfectionism is exactly the problem!

And, I appreciate your perspective that his problems are contrary to his high standards. Great perspective.

I'm very depressed and not feeling hope for love tonight. Perhaps some sleep will help me see the light.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship