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So does that mean you are definitely done and your feelings for stbxh are dead? Or are you just watching him for movement?

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mish,
that means I am not doing anything. I am fed up with this situation. More than you know. But yesterday I felt there is a lot still left between us. Only the way things are, the way he chooses to behave, it isnt enough for me.
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I understand K. The frustration is totally justifiable. I was just wondering if yesterday had started you thinking again about waiting this out any longer.


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Hey Specialest of K's..

What color are your toenails?

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Hey M.. hope you arent feeling too 'cheesed off' as we say in the UK (means like, bit fed up). Just stopped to say hi.. funny, when I log in now and check on you and you arent here.. I can imagine you instead, picture you pottering about in your house! Huh, funny hey ! I am going to get a little thing for the kids tommorow to post over, something they can make.. AND.. we have bf's nephews christening in 6 weeks and when I asked bf what we should get... he said, I am going to make him a painting like Maria's !!!! With his name on, we just need to think of a theme. This is amazing, because bf swears he is not creative and has never drawn or painted (apart from he tried once for me, as a present).. so thanks for inspiring him !

If it turns out badly.. we will ask you to paint it and post it over wink
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Kalni..is was a very simple question. I wanted you just to think. Know something? Many people here can't answer that question.

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"Something is wrong with me" then, was good enough for you I guess...
Frank, I like it when people make me think. Very much so.
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Ali,
dont take my business now!!!! Use glitter glues and buttons and anything that fits the theme...

I am ordering jewelery supplies now. My customers have starting asking for my autumn-fall collection!! LOL!!! LOVE IT!!!

Took the kids out for shopping then pizza and beer (not them, me). We have a GREAT time. We all three said, it felt like a "date". My kids are wonderful!

stbxh called and asked me to go with them on Sun to a theater. I said I dont want to. He insisted but I could speak freely with the kids listening. NOT doing THAT again though.

He also said he wants to pass by tomorrow. I asked him to call because we may be gone. If the kids are done with homework, we will be gone...
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Mmmm....pizza and beer - thanks K you just gave me an excellent idea for dinner tonight, especially since it's just me!

I like how you are the one in control regarding your STBXH. Stay strong!

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Souvlaki and ouzo ( I know a place on Paros where you can get a nice mavrothira crassi kokkino) FIB


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