Unbelievable. I predict that one of these days she's going wake up and come crawling back to you. You may not be there anymore but I can see it happening.
I don't see it happening...she's too proud.
With her credit and job history, trust is an issue. Originally one of the stipulations I put in the paperwork was that if she became in arrears in her car or insurance payments, I reserve the right to take possession of the car and sell it. I kept a set of keys. But I have since decided that isn't an option.
The other issues are that when I sell the house and need to get a mortgage or buy a new car down the road, I don't want her car debt on my record. Financing is tougher now than ever. Another issue is that as long as the car is in my name, I can be liable for any lawsuits filed in the event she or my stepD get in a serious accident. Insurance has max liability limits.
It may seem I'm being cold hearted and calculating about this, but it's nothing personal. It's business and I'm covering my butt.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
