Six months into the wife not knowing if she really wanted a divorce. Last sunday, she cancelled retrouville. Says she is done. OK. Fine. Meeting with attorney's next week. Trying to me nice. Remember what sun tzu said. Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer. Need to do that so we can proceed peacefully through the divorce process. She couldn't even give a marriage encounter 2 days just to try for our kids. What a selfish, selfish person.
Now she wants to wait until after the holidays: Like January or February??? I am not going to be with her for the holidays anyway. It isn't like she is coming to my parents house for christmas. They can't stand her and she knows it....
I have been keeping my cool for the most part. Being happy, walking away when she gets angry at me for no reason.
Sitting at dinner tonight and I got mad. I am taking my middle son to see taylor swift tomorrow night. She is going out drinking with her girl friends. then she says if you aren't doing anything saturday, I am going out to a bar with friends in front of our sons...I told her tonight she needs to stop with talking about it in front of the kids. I am resenting the hell out of her. She probably had 4 glasses of wine tonight.
I sometimes just want this over with. I am feeling better everyday that I am able to start moving on. It is just the going out till 3am while we are still together with our sons in the house just gets me fired up. She is still acting like she is 25....
Tired of being the responsible parent while she acts like a school girl.
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19
