I like it GIMA! I shall put those words on my dashboard somewhere. Kind of back to my old mantra "Hope is knowing that something good can come from something bad." I'm running out of room on my dash with all the great words of wisdom coming from this forum.

On detachment I often confused it with separation as in emotional separation. Thinking that if I was feeling pain or anger towards my W I was not detached.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09