1) D18 had the same counselor. I told her about our meeting and SHE said that the counselor was easily intimidated. I was trying my best nOT to be intimidating, instead looking for soultions.
2) STBX and D14 live in a condo because STBX was [censored]*ng another man, get it? SHe IS still doing this. D14 hates this guy, hates living there. Did your H fuc*k another woman? Did he do it in full view of your kids? Were you forced to kick him on on moral principals? If not then I guess you aren't qualified to decide how we must all 'feel'.
3) D14 talks to me in TEARS about this situation she lives in. How she doesn't want to be around her because of her emotional mood swings.
In summary, you are way off base and insulting. STBX is out of the house because it is HER CHOICE. Get it? She could legally use the California courts to kick me out, but she knows if she does that the two girls will disown her.
Why do you think that is? Because I'm some kind off A$$hole? Why do you think the girls would not want to take the house away from me if that were true? If I'm the baddie, as you keep painting me out to be, why not take what's theirs?
Why do they tend to gravitate to me when I'm solid and stable?
I have no idea where all your anger comes from. If you don't have anything supportive to say to me on ways I can help my girls - all three of them - then please keep your opinions to yourself. I am tired of your constant negativity
