Thanks for stopping by. It makes me feel less alone in this. I went back to read your initial post. It looks like your situation started around the same time as mine (Feb 2008) but my H kept it to himself, just withdrew. When I tried to talk to him about his withdrawal he stonewalled.
Are you making any progress in your sitch? Are you and W still in the same house? Has she filed for D? It sounds as though you are trying to wait for her to come out of her fog. With my D-day approaching, the prospect of "waiting" for the fog to lift takes on a different color. I like your "bunker" metaphor.
I don't know if my H is in MLC or not but yesterday Jody (coach) and I talked about it. She said that my H is not responding like a typical WAS and appears to be in a clinical depression, based on his writings and behavior. I'm just trying to center myself and figure out where to go from here. Your comments have helped.
